Tuesday 21 March 2017

5 months + 1 day, 21 weeks + 5 days, 152 days 

Dear baby, as you sleep soundly on daddy's and mummy's bed, papa is fighting an endless war at work. It is hard to stay in a workplace where affirmations are nil and petty quarrels are aplenty. 
It is even harder when the pple who are causing you these emotional hurts are the pple you have called family ever since you are born. 
Baby, I hope you grow up to be a person who doesn't take things for granted and to learn to reciprocate love and respect. I hope you will be a respectful and pleasant girl that everybody likes and to have a circle of positive influence and good friends around you. 
Forgive daddy and mummy for not giving you the time with your grandparents. We cannot let you fall sick again due to the lack of hygiene from your grandparents. It took you 3.5 weeks to recover from your cough and now, your nose is still stuffy and you are sleeping noisily inside mummy's baby carrier due to your stuffy nose. 
Papa is thinking of ways to solve many issues now. It's stressful for everyone but when we look at you, we know it's all worth it. Its hard but When we hit rock bottom, the only way is up and eventually things will get better. 
All I can say is... It's hard for 2 families to stay under one roof. Baby, please advise your future husband to get a home before you get married. 
If mummy and daddy are old, obselete and stubborn, please teach us the new ways of how things will be like in the future. But after all these experiences, I think daddy and mummy don't dare to be old and blur and will stay as current as possible. 
Xiao jie, your awake time is lengthening wor!! Mummy is so proud of you!! You are really no longer an infant. You managed to stay awake for about 1 hour and 45 mins before showing signs of sleepiness. 
Continue to grow well and stay healthy yah :) 
Night out at gastrobeats @ MBS! Tried the mochi ice cream, tatter tots, fish and chips as well as truffle fries from the food store. The sauces for the fish and chips were really good, the combination of salted egg yolk and curry work really well! Shall try to replicate this taste when our own place is ready. And the Thai tea mochi taste was very rich and silky, nice! 
Most importantly, I'm glad the hubby felt more unwinded after the night out. It's really hard for him to tolerate the negativity both at work and home. I can only wish for our home to be completed earlier so hubby can find a place of solace soon. 
Persevere daddy, baby and mummy love you :) 

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